Feeling vs Doing
Underlying anything done is a person’s headspace. This headspace can’t be escaped, but can be repressed or ignored for a while, but eventually the feelings will come out. Feelings are a person’s internal world, beyond any form or matter. Feelings come from interactions and experiences with places, people, objects, and situations. It’s feedback from these interactions and experiences- the way the person relates to the event that bring on feelings and emotions. To look at feelings is to peer inside and see how someone’s ticking.
Doing leads to more doing. Once something is done, something else must be found “to do”. A circle is created, the more you do, the more you need to do. These things that usually cost money as well as time. A person can be lost in thought whilst “doing” something, the question then becomes, are they really there if they are in their mind and emotions?
For me the question how are you (feeling), is more important than that of what have you been doing. I don’t want a checklist to be rattled off- I want to know how the item on the checklist made you feel then, and how you feel now.
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